As people age, some live longer than others, some work longer and harder than others and some are more productive into their 70s, 80sand even 90s. On the other hand, many die for whatever reason and others opt for early retirement. This article delves into an anxiety provoking realm- the anxieties that befall certain individuals who experience their friends, relatives and colleagues either dying before them, retiring before them, or leaving for a retirement ranch or assisted living facility.